Thankful Thursday

  • I am thankful that I had Michael Petlow for my Grandpa. He was larger than life and one of the most charismatic people I have ever known.
  • I am thankful that I was able to take an emergency flight to California last week to see him a few days before he died.
  • I am thankful that he knew who I was and even cracked a few jokes as I sat holding his hand.
  • I am thankful that he lived such a long and amazing life.
  • I learned to swing dance from him and I know my love of big band and The Rat Pack music came from him.
  • I learned to be entrepreneurial and how to work a crowd from watching him as a small child.
Grandma and Grandpa on their honeymoon.
Grandma and Grandpa on their honeymoon.
...more than 60 years later.
...more than 60 years later.
Grandpa loved to laugh.
Grandpa loved to laugh.
And he loved to dance!
And he loved to dance!

Grandpa Petlow

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Michael Andrew Petlow

91 years young, passed away peacefully and surrounded by his family at his home on June 27, 2014.

Mike lived the American Dream. He was a man of many talents and many interests. He was a charismatic man with a genuine personality and unbelievable intellect. He was tenacious and a self-taught man with a desire to conquer the unknown; he valued the pursuit of knowledge. He was an entrepreneur, a restaurateur, a philanthropist, but above all else, he was a family man. He was proud of his family and his family meant the world to him; not a day went by that he didn’t make that known. Mike’s love for his family coupled with his warm and kind-hearted nature gave him the ability to touch people, near and far, and it’s this love that stemmed from his family that made everyone feel welcomed and a part of his family.

He was born July 4, 1922 in Fort William, Ontario, Canada to Catharyna and Andrew Petlow. Mike left high school after the 10th grade and worked as a deckhand on the SS Canadian and the Lethbridge, canaller ships that plied the Great Lakes from Fort William to Montreal. From 1942 to 1945, Mike served in the Royal Canadian Army stationed on Prince Rupert Island in British Columbia. He returned to his hometown after his military service and earned an Ontario Provincial Certificate in Accounting. On June 7, 1947 Mike married the love of his life, Jennie Clara Syroid, and they were blessed with three sons: Gary, Brian, and Andrew. Together they opened the Columbia Grill on a cold, snowy winter’s day in 1953 and continued its operation until finally selling it in 1974. Being the entrepreneur that he was, he also opened The Millionaire Drive-In, a drive-in restaurant that served delicious hamburgers, Sno-Cap Root Beer, and had parking for sixty cars where his niece, Cathie, worked as one of the car hops. While Mike ran the restaurants, he was a member of the Canadian Restaurant Association of Canada and served as its director for five years.

To escape the extreme winters in Canada, Mike and Jennie “wintered” for six weeks in Desert Hot Springs each year and travelled extensively throughout Southern California. They planted their roots in beautiful Santa Barbara during “Fiesta Week” in 1964. In the late sixties, Mike and Jennie opened Toby’s Restaurant in two locations, Long Beach and Palm Springs. Bitten by the “real estate bug” Mike began investing in rental properties in the greater Santa Barbara area in the late sixties. In the early seventies, Mike joined the distinguished company of Pitts and Bachmann, Realtors, as a real estate agent and later became a loan officer for Great Western Savings and Loan, helping many Santa Barbara families buy their first home. Mike’s love for real estate eventually evolved into the founding of his own business, Columbia Property Management, where he purchased rental properties for single-family residences. His youngest son, Andrew, continues to run and grow his business to this day.

During his initial years as a California resident, Mike developed a deep sense of patriotism for America which led to him and his wife becoming naturalized citizens on December 15, 1977. In turn, this led to a new passion for politics. He was a major fundraiser for the Republican Party in Santa Barbara County starting with the “Reagan Roundup” at Monty Robert’s “Flag is up Farms” in Santa Ynez. He was also part of the welcoming committee at the airport hanger when Queen Elizabeth visited Santa Barbara to meet with President Reagan and tour “Rancho del Cielo” (his California ranch dubbed the Western White House). He worked on campaigns for President Reagan, President George H. W. Bush, and President George W. Bush and Governors Pete Wilson, George Deukmejian, and Arnold Schwarzenegger. He also rallied for candidates in other statewide races and local elections. He served as an Alternate Delegate to the National Republican Conventions in Philadelphia and San Diego. He served as President of the Lincoln Club of Santa Barbara for seven years where his dear friend, Brooks Firestone, affectionately referred him to as “Captain America.” He was appointed by Governor Pete Wilson to serve on the 19th District Agricultural Association Board at Earl Warren Showgrounds and he graciously accepted the appointment. From 1992 to 1993, he served as President of the Santa Barbara-Puerto Vallarta Sister Cities Committee, and for over 25 years, he and his wife Jennie traveled to Puerto Vallarta once a year; he was even presented the “Key to the City” in the Puerto Vallarta News Paper. Soon Puerto Vallarta became another hometown for Mike and his Puerto Vallarta friends became part of his family.

Mike was a generous man and he loved being involved. He was a Shriner for 58 years and an Ancient, Free, and Accepted 32nd Degree Mason of the Scottish Rite for 59 years. In 1963 he served as President of the Lakehead Shrine Club and directed the Shrine Circus for three years when it came to town. He also was a charter member of the Lakehead Shrine Motor Patrol and took part in many Shrine parades and conventions. He was also a member of the Santa Barbara Elks Lodge #613 for 32 years. Mike’s love for helping everyone in need led to his involvement in various other community organizations including the Santa Barbara Transition House, Friends of the Lobero, and Music Academy of the West. Mike’s love for politics and philanthropic causes was only rivaled by his love for his native Canada and hockey. He loved the two so much that when Wayne Gretzky joined the Los Angeles Kings in 1988 he was by far their biggest fan.

Mike was preceded in death by his parents and sister, Anne Martin. He is survived by his loving wife of 67 years, Jennie and sons: Gary (Debora), Brian (Stephanie), and Andrew (Carolyn). He also leaves behind seven grandchildren: Sam (Kim), Stefani (James), Louanne (Michael), Michael, Michelle, Carter, and Justin; and six great-grandchildren: Nadia, Logan, Amelie, Verity, Ashtyn, and Danielle; and his dear niece Cathie Martin and grand-niece Bonnie Aguiar.

Mike’s love of dancing and Big Band Jazz music, and his zest for life touched us all. He was a proud, honorable, and wise man and he would light up any room he walked into. He was an extraordinary individual and he will be greatly missed by his family and friends. We will remember him fondly and cherish the impact he has had on all of us. Above all, we will always remember what Mike always said: “The best is yet to come!”

In lieu of flowers, you may make a donation to Visiting Nurse and Hospice Care of Santa Barbara. His family will hold a private memorial service with arrangements entrusted to Welch-Ryce-Haider Funeral Chapels.

Week 6 in “The Cast”

Week 6 in "The Cast"
Week 6 in "The Cast" (click to see album)

The day after Amelie’s birthday party our friends who live around the corner had their 4th birthday party and it was “Frozen” themed. Nadia and Amelie had a great time and the birthday girls’ mother, Hannah, did the most awesome job on the decorations and food – I loved everything about it! I think my two favorite things were “Kristoff’s Ice Blocks” which was blue jello cut in rectangles and “Anna’s Frozen Hearts” that were white chocolate dipped strawberries cut in heart shapes.

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Mike and Dani watching the kids play games at the gym.
Mike and Dani watching the kids play games at the gym.

The party was at My Gym, for little kids. Mike got Dani settled on a railing so that she could see all the kids and the stuff they were playing. I think her favorite part of the party was the food because she had two pieces of pizza, grapes (“Frozen Trolls”) and a cupcake!

All the girls playing Hello Kitty Trouble
One of Amelie's birthday gifts was a Hello Kitty version of Trouble that we have enjoyed playing.
Mike and the girls on Father's Day.
Mike and the girls on Father's Day.

For Father’s Day we decided to try and go to Cotton Patch because we had some gift cards. Mike and I were trying to figure out how we could take Dani and have her sit upright because it would be a long meal trying to hold her with the heavy and very hot cast. Mike asked if we still had the black booster seat from when Nadia was little and I said yes. It’s made out of a strong foam material and once we were at the restaurant we asked them for a booth because they have wooden backs. We flipped the booster over and propped Dani up and it worked perfectly! I had to keep one hand on her throughout the meal (because I was afraid she would tip forward in her excitement), but it was worth it to get to eat out!

June 12-18, 2014

June 12-18, 2014

The biggest change this week was that Dani wanted to be out of her TARDIS chair more and more to get on the floor and explore. It is a major workout for her to get around, but she is so determined! Her upper body was getting stronger and stronger and she started to eat more again from all the sudden activity. The doctors at Scottish Rite had told us to expect this around week 5, so it was good to see her doing the things they expected. We had made it more than halfway with no major spills or diaper leaks so I was feeling good.

June 12-18, 2014

Dani does NOT like to sit still for the cast cooler so we started to give her conversation hearts or smarties to keep her from crying or moaning in misery. The cooler doesn’t hurt her and it works great to get the stinky sweat out, but she is like any other 2 year old – she wants to be free!

June 12-18, 2014

One last photo just for fun because it makes me laugh.

Amelie’s 5th Birthday Party

Amelie's 5th Birthday Party
Amelie's 5th Birthday Party (click to see album)

This year we had Amelie’s birthday party at a skating rink called Rollerland, which worked out great because we could invite entire families and have air conditioning for Dani. It was nice to see the kids of all ages out on the rink having a good time. Several parents skated too, which was great to see. Rollerland has some cool walker type contraptions to help the kids who didn’t know how to skate.

Amelie and Jude using the skate-walkers.
Amelie and Jude using the skate-walkers.
Dani in her wagon playing with balloons.
Dani had fun with the balloons and Mike rolled her around on the rink too.

After lots of skating it was time to sing Happy Birthday to Amelie and then do the Hokey Pokey. I love how she covered her ears at the beginning of the video.

Doing the Hokey Pokey and trying to make Amelie laugh.
Doing the Hokey Pokey and trying to make Amelie laugh.
Nadia and Reagan - reunited at last!
Nadia and Reagan - reunited at last!
Time to blow out the candles.
Time to blow out the candles.
Amelie with her huge piece of cake.
Amelie could not believe I let her have such a giant piece of cake. She asked me to take a photo of her being excited.
Kids at the table.
I thought this photo with all the boys and purses on one end of the table was fun.
Amelie and Grammie
Amelie and Grammie
Dani and Aunt Paula
Dani and Aunt Paula
Playing "Dead Bug"
Playing "Dead Bug"

This game was called “Dead Bug” and when they stopped the music the kids had to lay on the rink and scream like a bug. The loudest one got a glow stick necklace. It was really fun to watch.

Amelie's 5th Birthday Party

Amelie with some of her gifts after the party.
Amelie with some of her gifts after the party.

We had a wonderful time at the roller-skating rink with so many friends. I forgot to try and get a group shot, but I am thankful for everyone that joined us for Amelie’s party.

Week 5 in “The Cast”

Week 5 in "The Cast" - June 5-11, 2014
Week 5 in "The Cast" (click to see album)

Amelie had Dance Camp this week and she was so excited! We didn’t want to let the cast control everything about our life especially since Dani wasn’t so miserable now. It was good to get out of the house and for the big girls to be back in some activities. One of my friends told me they wished they could stay home more often and I told her I was glad we had something to do every single day of this week. It’s all your perspective.

Amelie at dance

Miss Tish and Amelie at the end of Dance Camp.
Miss Tish and Amelie at the end of Dance Camp.

June 5-11, 2014

Nadia and Amelie started swim school again and now they are over at the Wesleyan pool which they thought was neat.

June 5-11, 2014
One day while Amelie was at Dance Camp, the other girls and I went to a birthday party at Chuck E. Cheese.

Amelie and Dani having fun.

Amelie and Dani having fun.
Amelie and Dani having fun.
"Mummies"
When they came down the stairs they told us they were "Mummies"
Dani in her TARDIS chair
Dani has been playing with these letter tiles for hours on end in her TARDIS chair.

We were happy to make it through this week because we were more than half way through this adventure.