China Trip answers

WHAT? NO WAY! OH MY GOSH.I am so jealous. SOOOOO jealous. And so glad you will be blogging! WOW, how did this all come about? You have to blog THAT story. How does a couple say, “Ok, let’s go to Beijing to study Chinese!” Please do a post about that because I’m dying to know. And I’m dying to copy every move. Oh I’m so so so jealous!!

The quote above is from MUTHA and echoes what others have asked, so I will attempt to answer the who, what, where, when, why and how.

Who – Our little family.

What – headed to Beijing, China for a month this spring. Mike will be going to the school each day for classes. The school is in an office building. I will be having a tutor from the school come to our apartment for 2 hours a day. The apartment will be arranged by the school. It is a furnished one bedroom, with broadband Internet access. The information states that the kitchen has a fridge, microwave and basic kitchen utensils. The apartment has a washer, but doesn’t mention a dryer. I know that on our trip most people in China hung their clothes up to dry. I am going to try and get a confirmation from the school this week, as we thought they might have those small stack-able washer/dryer combos that are one unit. They offer extra-curricular activities throughout the week that include learning about Chinese tea, wine, cooking and other subjects. I think that will be fun to take part in. They have excursions each weekend to see the sights which will be fun to do again because it was so hot last time and we were just thinking, “Get us to the babies!!”

Where – Beijing, China. Apartment in the University District.

Why – We want to learn the language for future humanitarian reasons, and for Nadia to learn the language of her birth country. She will be raised as an American, but her knowing Mandarin will be valuable later in her life. At some point I am sure she will want to go back to visit and we want her to be able to speak to the people in their language. We have tried to learn from home during the wait. We had a native speaker that came to our house to try and tutor us, we have the Pimsleur and Rosetta Stone. Both are very good and we are still working on that before we go. And will continue to use it once we return. This trip is really a trial to see how much we can learn in the actual environment.

When – Less than 2 months from now, and we will be there the entire month of March. HOLY COW!!! Why at this time? Because it is SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO much cheaper to travel to China in the spring than in the summer or over Christmas break. Good deals on flights and so on.

How – The nature of Mike’s job is one that he can work remotely. The company he works for has agreed to let him work remotely since we will have broadband access. He will be taking 2 weeks of vacation for the trip and working from there 2 weeks. They have many other employees in the states and Canada that work remotely permanently, so it’s nothing new for their company. That is a great blessing to us that they are allowing this. The church is allowing me to also work remotely since most of what I do is by email/phone anyway. One week is spring break and the other 3 weeks my good friend Karen will be picking up the paperwork and meeting with the school counselor if they need anything for the KHUSA program. Blessings everywhere for this to work out.

Now Mutha asks how a couple ends up doing this. We just decided to do it and once Mike did a ton of research we felt that this program with this school would be the best choice. It’s going to be an adventure and those of you who would like to do it can just consider us your guinea pigs. We can report back on the truth of the apartments, shopping, education and so on. We have now decided not to adopt a second child and that has offered us the flexibility to make this trip.

A forgotten story

First – to those who have asked I will post the “who, what, where, when, how” for our China trip this weekend.

But I was thinking about the trip today and I thought about when we were coming home from China. We were in LA and our flight was delayed, delayed, delayed. We took up residence in this one area of the terminal and people were coming and going all around us as their flights left. At some point a Chinese couple and their teenage daughter sat across from us. She was staring at us for a long time and finally asked about Nadia. We answered all the usual questions and she translated for her parents. They were on their way to Texas to see her brother graduate. She made faces at Nadia watched her for a long time and finally asked if she could take a photo of Nadia. The whole thing was fascinating to her, but in a good way. On the plane they were seated a row behind us and she smiled and said things to Nadia off and on during the flight. I thought it was really sweet because she was so nice about the whole thing.

So I thought hmmmm how much of that are we going to get in China because we won’t be with a big group of other foreigners? Nadia and I will be out and about shopping and stuff and I will be the one sticking out. It’s going to be an adventure. Perhaps I am going to need a translated card for this time that says, “Last year we came to your country to adopt this child. This year we have returned to visit and learn more about China.” That probably a good plan since I don’t think I am going to learn enough fast enough to answer all those questions 🙂

One more Christmas post

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Family Christmas 2007 (click to see album)

With all the crazy activity of the holidays I didn’t get to do a post about our Christmas time with Mike’s family. Chris and Dee hosted the event a couple days before Christmas and a good time was had by all. Especially Nadia who grabbed a drink left on the coffee table and promptly dumped it all over herself. I give the girl credit for knowing how you are supposed to use a cup, but she had a shocked look on her face once she was wearing the beverage.

As usual we did the gift exchange and there was plenty of wheeling and dealing between family members. We ended up with a Target gift card and some totally COOL travel mugs. They are stainless steel and say that if sealed they keep drinks warm for 12 hours and cold for 4 and they have these really nifty lids (yes, I used the word nifty). The event wouldn’t be the same without the family members working together to get what they want.

It was the first chance many of Mike’s side of the family had to see Nadia, so that was really fun. Joy’s kids came in from out of town and it was nice to spend some time with them over at her place. We were getting really loud and laughing a lot and Nadia probably thought we had all gone crazy. But she was mostly just interested in the toys that Janis kept bringing out 🙂 It was really great to see so many people this holiday.

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Baker Family Christmas

Janis and Nadia Kylie and Nadia

Jeanna and Nadia

Thankful Thursday

  • For my sister Tahni who is visiting with us this week. She hadn’t been up since a couple days after we got home from China and I was a jet lag zombie, so it’s nice to just have fun together.
  • For the Kuchems who are in Mexico right now delivering gifts for our Operation Border Blessing church project. Mike and I went last year with Rachel K. and Bill M. from church and it was an amazing time and wonderful to meet the people in Mexico.
  • For the Isaiah 55 ministries in Reynosa, Mexico who located the families for us to donate to. And all the work they do with deaf children in that part of Mexico.
  • For all the new babies that have come into my friends lives this last year- either through birth, adoption or fostering.
  • For the blessing of Christmas. It’s my favorite time of year anyway, but it was like a double blessing with Nadia this year.
  • For the hilarious antics of Nadia. She is so funny and constantly amazes me with how much she understands.
  • For everything working out for our trip to China in March! For those who don’t know we will be living in Beijing for one month attending language school. And YES we will be blogging from there. (That’s been a top question asked) Mike will be going to the school everyday. I will be having a tutor come 2 hours a day to the apartment where Nadia should be napping. HA HA.  Our apartment will be in university district of Beijing, but I don’t really know what that means since the city has 14 MILLION people. We are getting so excited to spend time in China and be around the culture. The adoption trip is just a whirlwind and you are traveling with a bunch of people to do a bunch of paperwork at a bunch of assigned places. So I am really excited about this adventure we are about to take.
  • For Janis who will be our super house sitter while we are gone- what a RELIEF!
  • For United offering such a good deal in March on airfare that we could upgrade and get Nadia her own seat. I know that we and the other passengers are going to be happy about that 🙂