Starting to feel alive again

View From Balcony

This photo is the view from our little enclosed balcony/clothes drying area of the apartment. It was taken as the sun was coming up on Sunday morning.

Okay so with some sleep Saturday arrived and we all bundled up and headed to the Lotus Center across the street from our apartment. There was American pop music blaring from one of the office buildings and as we were getting ready to cross the very busy street where traffic laws don’t apply, “Staying Alive” came on. I started laughing and told Mike it was the perfect song to be playing as we took our lives in our hands! As our guide told us on the adoption trip, “If you need to cross the street, get behind a Chinese person. If they move, you move. If they stop, you stop. This will save your life.”

The Lotus Center is a very big multi-level mall and grocery store. There is a Watsons Drug store on the bottom floor that reminded me of CVS. There were also multiple restaurants on the bottom floor and a bunch of shops and kiosks. “Learn English for 8 yuan a session!!!” and those sorts of things. We moved up the second floor and started shopping. For housewares we got another quilt and some pillows for our bed. Towels and wash cloths and a tub to give Nadia a bath in. For the kitchen we got 2 each of forks, knives and spoons, plus 3 bowls. Assorted cleaning supplies. Assorted snacks including Ritz (which are better here – light and fluffy) and of course what I have decided is our China tradition – Snickers. They had all kinds of yogurt including what looked like Dannon in Chinese. They have some wild flavors, but I just got Nadia the old strawberry standby. I think she might like to try Kiwi and a couple others, so I will pick them up while we are here.

We ran all that up to the apartment and then came back out in search of food. We ended up at the Pizza Company which is a sit down restaurant. We learned last time that the Chinese are serious about their pizza and it’s a big deal. We got some garlic bread and a couple of pizzas and headed back to the apartment because they were coming to set up our Internet access. The Internet guy fried our wireless router that we brought so we could use both laptops. We were trying to tell them we had a transformer and adapter and he just plugged it into the wall and it started to stink and by then it was too late ๐Ÿ™‚ The man from the school ran over to their offices and got us one of theirs, so now we are all set up and good to go.

There was a little boy who looked about 7 years old at the pizza place waiting on a to-go order with his dad who was fascinated by us and Nadia. He kept staring at us and making comments to his dad. We handed the father the little laminated cards that I made up and they read it (it has a family photo on one side and then some information about our trip on the other side in Chinese). Then the little boy tried to talk to us and his dad said, “Speak English.” The little boy wanted to know if Nadia could speak English and we said yes and that we were also going to teach her Chinese. He was a really cute kid and obviously thought that we were quite the oddity, but that Nadia was really cute.

We put Nadia down for a nap at 5pm and thought she might sleep a couple of hours, so we decided to nap too. At midnight we woke up and she was still asleep, so we woke her up, fed her and forced ourselves to stay up until 3 am even though we were all fighting the jet lag. We got back up at 6 am and are all feeling a lot more alive. So for those who wondered if our sleep experiment from home worked, I would say so. We all need to move about one more hour and we will be perfectly on China time. Go Mike with the great idea!!!! The shower set up is just fine. The water gets really hot and I am sure by the end of the month we will have our speed racer technique down to perfection.

After Nadia gets up from her morning nap we are going to head back to the store for some other odds and ends that we realized will be helpful to our stay. It’s funny how you just get used to all your “stuff” at home that you have accrued over time and when you don’t have basic items it throws you for a loop. We are going to go out exploring today and I will get lots more photos of the area that we will be living in for the next month.

It’s a little surreal that we are back in China, but so cool! School starts for us in the morning. Mike will be going from 8 am – 12 pm. The tutor will be coming to the apartment for me from 10 am – 12 pm. Then Mike will be working every night from the apartment and he has a nice little set up in our bedroom to be closed up in. I am planning on taking Nadia on walks and to the park and stuff in the afternoon so we can explore and leave the apartment quiet for Mike.

We have arrived safe and sound

And we even have our luggage! I will post in more detail later and include photos, but as we were on the way to the airport we got an email from the school saying they upgraded us to a 2 bedroom apartment because they “thought our little girl might like her own room.” WOO HOO! Then we got to the airport and United DIDN’T charge us the upgrade fee for Nadia’s child’s ticket to go Economy Plus. WOO HOO! So I was feeling good at 5 am and ready to catch our first flight. Both flights were uneventful and I was very pleased with the service we got on United and so, so, so happy that we went through Chicago and cut out the travel time that we went through using China Southern through Los Angeles (like we did for the adoption trip). 3 people from the school came to meet us at the airport including the VP which was nice. They got us up to the apartment and Nancy took me down to a little store right by the entrance for bottle water and “Coca Cola Light”. Then she pointed out to us the major grocery store/mall that is just across the street. She showed us where we were on a map and then asked us if we needed anything else right then.

Now by the time we rode through Beijing traffic to the apartment we had been traveling for about 26 hours and were zombies. Nadia had only slept about 5 hours in the last 24 and we were just beat. The apartment is a good size and it’s fabulous to have a separate room for Nadia. But as we were trying to get her to sleep and get a little settled we kept finding things it didn’t have and that I didn’t pack like towels, toilet paper and the like. It said it came with basic kitchen utensils and here is what the kitchen had:

  • Refrigerator
  • Microwave
  • Countertop appliance with 2ร‚ย burners.
  • A VERY old skillet.

That’s it. No silverware (or chopsticks if you like), plates, cups, bowls or anything else. I would have laughed, but I was so worn out I wanted to cry. But instead we decided we would hit the store in the morning. We fed Nadia and got her in bed where she promptly threw up. All over her baby, blanket, the crib sheet and Taggie. So we got her up, changed her and the sheet (thank goodness I brought 2). And finally got her back to bed and ourselves into bed.

We both really wanted a shower, but as I said, there were no towels. And there isn’t really a shower……there is a shower head handle that just sprays out all over the bathroom. No joke, all the cupboards are up high in there (taller than Mike) so they don’t get wet. Mike says we are going to be having Navy showers for a month. Hee hee. But it’s got a western toilet and I am one HAPPY camper about that. I can handle all the rest like brushing our teeth with bottled water.

This apartment is very nice and GIANT by Beijing standards. I would say it’s the size our old apartment minus the extra bathroom and walk in closet for those of you who remember that place. There are tons of things very close to us and the school is in walking distance. Our apartment is on the 14th floor and everyone has been really friendly so far. We have gotten quite a few double takes, but that’s to be expected. A man on the plane with us told us afterwards that Nadia was such a good baby they didn’t even realize she was there. He said that he is used to parents going home with Chinese babies, not coming back. The man in front of us on the flight also said she was so good and quiet and thought it was really neat that we were bringing her back to China already.

Now I am off to finish unpacking to help us get settled in for our month long adventure. I will tell you more about today in the next post and include some photos.

Jen comes to visit

Jen Visit
Jen Visit (click to see album)

Click on the photo above to see the entire album. Most of the shots were taken by Jen with her new awesome Canon Rebel.

Jen and Nadia

Jen and Nadia

My cousin Jen came up to visit from Sugarland last weekend. She hadn’t been up here since Nadia was baptized back in September and boy has Nadia changed since then. Most of Nadia’s waking hours were spent in playtime. Jen also ran around with me to complete a few pre-trip errands while Nadia napped, like getting my hair cut and so on. We all went to eat at Pappasitos’s. YUM!!! We had to have a little Tex-Mex fix before we are out of the country for a month. Jen also joined us for a trip to Fry’s to pick up a step down transformer and a couple of adaptors for the apartment. We were so grateful for her keeping the cuteness entertained.

While Mike was looking at computer software we wandered off and were watching some kids play “Rock Band”. I got all psyched out that I wanted to play the drums. So a guy who ACTUALLY knew how the game worked offered to play guitar and let me pick the song. I choose “Wanted Dead or Alive” by Bon Jovi. It was so much fun, but I kept laughing and would get major off beat. Nadia was getting excited and pretending to bang drum sticks like me. So after we finished Jen and Nadia got in the drummers seat and I took up the guitar. We failed the song 3 times in a row because I just couldn’t get my groove on, but Jen and Nadia were great drummers. Another guy came up to play guitar and I switched to bass. MUCH better and we didn’t fail the song. I have got to tell you that “Rock Band” is a really fun game. I have seen it on a TV review and on other people’s blogs. It was great fun!!

On Sunday Jen and I went to church so that I could get some KIDS HOPE stuff done. After church we went to lunch with a friend from church. We went to Pei Wei because “it’s tradition.” Then we came home and Jen got some more Nadia time in before she had to head home and back to life as the super duper Jr. High Spanish teacher that she is. (Teacher of the Year I would like to add).

Thanks for coming to see us Jen! You know I adore you and think that you are one of the most awesome people that I know. Your sweet heart and love for God have been a great example to me…..from the time we were teens and I wanted to be like you ๐Ÿ™‚ And from that I learned about the Lord, and became addicted to PJ’s.

This photo is of Nadia in her Apple Hat that was made by Leigh at Mike’s office. TOO CUTE! And oh my gosh I love this photo of Nadia!

Apple Hat

And some shots of tooth brushing.

Brushing teeth Brushing teeth

Peek a Boo with Mama!

Peek a Boo Peek a Boo

Nadia is great with the spoon!

Louanne and Nadia YUM

And finally so tired after all that playing. Notice you can see the stem and leaf on the hat ๐Ÿ™‚

Sleepy Girl

Thankful Thursday

First I want to say thanks to my friend Robyn who sent a Chinese New Year gift box to us all the way from Canada. She sent a case of Wunderbars (that’s right, a case..YUM), Smarties and one of her favorite books for Nadia. It’s called “A Wrinkle In Time”. The 2 images that follow here are something I told her about that she wanted to see. Sherry’s Place in GZ made these for us after we bought about a million pairs of squeeky shoes. The first is Nadia’s Chinese name and a dog because she was born in the year of the dog. The second says “Happy Family”. I think they are just so pretty.

Year of the Dog

Happy Family

  • I am thankful that we are a Happy Family! Our life is just wonderful and blessed beyond belief.
  • That my friend Jacquelyn is out of the hospital and healing at home.
  • For my cousin Jen who is coming for a visit this weekend. YEAH!
  • That the packing for the trip is mostly done. Just need to toss the clothes in and pack the laptop. WOOT!
  • For mac and cheese. When Nadia won’t eat anything else, she will eat this.
  • For Karen taking care of the KIDS HOPE program for me while we are gone.
  • For all the people that have told us they will be praying for our safety and fun times on our trip.