Nadia’s First Thanksgiving

Nadia's First Thanksgiving
Nadia's 1st Thanksgiving (click to see album)

We were home for Nadia’s for First Thanksgiving and Grandpa Greg and Grandma Brooke drove up from Houston. My Grammie joined all of us for dinner and my first turkey was delicious (thank you Alton Brown 🙂 ).  We had all sorts of tasty side items made by Grammie and Brooke. Nadia entertained everyone with her cute self. On Saturday we all went over to Roger and Paula’s for a wonderful dinner. YUM!

The weather was cold and wet and we even saw a few snow flurries on Thanksgiving, which was fun. All in all it was a great time. Today we plan on putting the tree up, which is really going to entertain Nadia.

Her new thing this weekend was to talk on her cell phone. I don’t know where she gets this from 😉

Chatting on the phone Taking a call

Grammie and Nadia

Grandma, Grandpa and Nadia

Paula and Nadia

Thankful Thanksgiving Thursday

Nadia after four months with us, at 13 months old. Nadia at nine months old in China

I couldn’t be more grateful to God for giving us such a wonderful child. She fits our personalities and into our family so perfectly. Today marks 4 months since they put Nadia in our arms. I will never forget that day. We woke up in Beijing WAY TOO early. Our bags had already been picked up and we got ready and I kept looking out the window at the insane amount of traffic and people on the street so early on a Sunday morning. We exchanged some of our US money for yuan and then all the moms, grandmas and siblings in our group posed for a photo. We traveled to the airport full of anticipation.

The plane landed in Nanchang and we loaded into another bus for the hour long ride to the hotel. Once there Mike went with some other dads to the store to get formula, rice cereal and bottled water. I was frantic running around the hotel room for no reason. I had packed the diaper bag before we left Beijing just in case we were short on time. I washed my face, brushed my hair and double checked everything. The guys got back and then it was time to load up to head to Civil Affairs. It was SO HOT!!

We rode the tiny elevator to the 24th floor. We entered the room and there they were! I was scanning the babies looking for Nadia. I thought I was going to pass out from the excitement. I kept thinking, “It’s really here, It’s really here.” Then I thought, “I can’t see her…there’s too many people, where is she?” Then I saw a nanny and she was holding Nadia’s hand pointing towards me saying ,”Mama, mama” Then I thought I was going to faint again. When were they going to call our name? When? When?

Then it was our turn and they handed the sweetest baby in the world to me. She just stared at me and looked around possibly wondering why all those babies were crying. As many have told me after seeing the video it was about the only time they have ever seen me speechless. HA HA! Once she went to Mike she was hooked and shortly after that she went to sleep. (if you haven’t seen the video – click on the video tab to see it in detail)

Our lives have changed in the most awesome way since that day 4 months ago. We adore being parents and it seems like Nadia has always been with us. She couldn’t sit up on her own when we got her at nearly nine months old. Three weeks later she started to crawl. Soon after that she was pulling up and cruising. Now at nearly 13 months she is on track with most babies her age and even ahead of many. She is incredibly smart and analyzes EVERYTHING. When we are out in public or in big groups of people she is watching, watching, watching. Then some time down the road she surprises us by imitating something that she observed.

Other things I’m thankful for on the extra special Thankful Thursday:

  • For my wonderful husband Mike – he is the best daddy too!
  • For our family and friends who have just surrounded Nadia with love since she came home.
  • For having a great church to attend freely.
  • For my work with World Vision and KIDS HOPE USA. I am grateful to God and to Mike that I am able to work with both of these ministries to serve children while still spending my days with Nadia.
  • For the staff at church who don’t mind that Nadia joins us at staff meeting each week.
  • For my cousin Jen and our lifelong bond. I love you and I am so thankful that we are so close.
  • For all the cool people I have met since starting our adoption journey. So many people I would have never come in contact with otherwise that I now know.
  • For our country’s military people. I know that this is such a hard time of year to be away from your family and I am grateful for your service.
  • For all the aid workers around the world (World Vision and others) who sacrifice so much of themselves for the people that most of the western world has forgotten about.
  • For getting to see Jess P. next week! That makes 3 times this year and I think we are setting a record.
  • For our house and clean running water that is safe to drink. Spend 2 weeks in China (or lots of other countries) and that is a serious thing to be grateful for.
  • For tasty food! I had to throw this in since it’s Thanksgiving. But I am truly thankful that I have a family and a refrigerator full of food that I am about to start cooking for this evening.
  • And for all my other blessings too numerous to mention.

What’s the deal?

What’s the deal with some car repair places? I mean really, do they have to lie? You know there wouldn’t be a stereotype about car repair places if this didn’t happen. Several years ago I was in a networking group when we owned our basket business. A person in the group owned a franchised transmission repair shop. He himself admitted that he didn’t know about cars, he just bought it because it was a good franchise. So he said he “trusted” the guys who worked for him to judge the cars and talk to the customers. So we take our Honda there when it hits about 85,000 miles for a transmission service. Just your standard maintenance to keep the car in good condition. They do the service and then tell us that we need a complete transmission overhaul. Okay well the car is pretty old with low mileage, so I guess it’s possible right? We aren’t transmission specialists, right? So we say, “We aren’t having any problems with the car or noticing anything slipping.” The guy says, “You need to do it, your car won’t make it to 100,000 miles like it is.” Hmmmm. So we decide not to fix it right then because of the huge cost and the fact that we weren’t noticing ANY issues with the car. And Mike knows enough about cars to judge that we didn’t need it right away.

So now about 4 years go by and our trusty Honda hits 130,000 miles. So it’s time for a transmission service again – get some fresh fluids and the like. We took it this time to a guy from our church who owns a transmission shop – Robert Johnson Transmission Re-builder Service. He does the service, checks out the car and lets us know that the car is in great shape and that as long as we get the timing belt changed every 100,000 miles our engine should easily make it to 250,000 miles.

Growl!!!! So of course I think back to the other shop that said our car would “never make it” because they just wanted to make $2000 from some people they assumed wouldn’t know better. That is SO ANNOYING!!!!

On a lighter note we found a great mechanic a few years back – so I don’t really have anything to gripe about on that front. Honest, charges a reasonable amount, locally owned and operated. And he gets the car done in the time he says he will. It’s the only place we have taken our cars since we found him. Today he put new brakes on the Honda and told us that everything looks great. If you are in our area I highly recommend Griffin Automotive on Vickery Ave.

Nadia Digs Dairy

Nadia has become the lover of all things dairy. Cheese was already a top choice because of the good old mac and cheese. Since she is now free to try all table foods was have been serving up all kinds of goodies to her. Last Sunday she had ice cream. Currently her yogurt flavor of choice is Royal Raspberry by Yoplait.

But she really loves MILK!!! Mike was getting himself a glass a couple nights ago and she was reaching for him and trying to get it and saying, “more, more”. So we dumped some in a sippy cup and she sucked it down. Same thing yesterday. It’s too cute to see her get all excited about anything, but the milk was funny. She is still on formula for the added calories and nutrition, but I am glad she wants milk for when we wean her off the bottles.