We all woke up Monday morning to find a new child had joined our family overnight. She was full of happiness and smiles (still the tantrums when she doesn’t get exactly what she wants, but that is expected). The biggest difference was how she behaved all day with Mike. Laughing, playing and the cutest was her “chasing” him around the hotel. She thought that it was hilarious that he was “trying” to get away from her. She let him tickle her a lot and was even lifting up her shirt to have him get her tummy. SO ADORABLE!
With me she likes to stand in front of me and dive bomb into my lap. Even if she bangs her head on my knee she still laughs and wants to do it again. She also likes to spin around in circles so Mike decided that she would love to fly into the air. So the first time he picked her up facing me and tossed her up in the air with me watching her reaction. She liked it – a lot! So then he faced her towards him and she laughed and laughed. Then Nadia wanted in on the action and he was switching back and forth. When Amelie wanted a turn she would run up to his legs and bang her arms on him and say, “maaaa” which we think is her attempt at more since we have been trying to teach her that. She was really sweet and precious with Mike all day and it helped fill us with much needed hope. What a difference a week has made with her relating to all of us, but especially Mike.
Other observations about Amelie:
- Emotionally she is like a 1 year old. Intellectually she is at her age level. She is very smart and can figure things out quickly. She just can’t cope with changes and all the stimulus has to be impacting her.
- She doesn’t have a “full belly” signal. I honestly think we could feed her at each meal and she would stuff the food in until she threw up. If she is awake she wants to be eating.
- She bangs on the table at meal times for more food. If you don’t respond fast enough she screams.
- If she sees a snack (in any form) and we don’t give it to her instantly, she flips out. Even if she just ate a huge meal.
- She likes to put stuff on her head or around her neck like a scarf. This can be a toy, book, diaper whatever. Then she throws it behind her.
- When she is tired or recovering from a tantrum she sucks her thumb. Then she uses the other hand to rubs her ear, her eye or the hand of the thumb she is sucking. A lot of the time she drapes her arm over her eyes while she is sucking her thumb.
- She waddles like a penguin or Charlie Chaplin. We are sure this is from the 57 layers of clothes they put the kids in which leads to them having no lower back or trunk strength.
- She really needs 2 naps a day, but the appointments and everything else are preventing any sort of routine.
Once we were up and moving we headed down to grab some breakfast at the buffet. Then we all loaded up in a mini bus and headed back over to the island for the bigger kids to have their TB tests checked. We were able to drop off our laundry at a store near there before heading to Liu Hua Lake Park. This place was filled with people doing everything from Tai Chi to dancing lessons. There were old men playing poker and people singing along with an accordion. We took a nice walk all the way around the lake and then they had a little amusement park and the kids were able to ride a few rides. Nadia rode a train and then I went with her on this alien space ship looking thing where you shoot guns at fake animals to make them make their sounds or squirt water. It was totally random, but she liked it.
Then we headed back to the hotel because Amelie desperately needed a nap. Mike, Nadia and I just ate noodles in the room while Amelie slept. After she woke up we headed down to the club level and had dinner down there and visited with friends. Then we took a little walk around the shopping area before coming back to the room for the night. Amelie continued to be cute and fun with Mike, which was really so sweet. It really was a good day for us and we could see a lot more into her playful personality.
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Health update (Wednesday night in China, morning at home):
Nadia is fine. Amelie still has a bit of a cough. Mike is on antibiotics and still can’t hear, but his cough is getting better day by day. I am in a lot of pain still for whatever I did to my side last week. I may go to the Western Clinic on the island on Thursday morning, but if it’s something with my rib all they can really do is tape me up, but they might want to give me pain meds. It’s the worst at night when I cough. Please continue to pray, it’s going to be a horrifying 24 hours of travel if this keeps up.