Starting to feel alive again

View From Balcony

This photo is the view from our little enclosed balcony/clothes drying area of the apartment. It was taken as the sun was coming up on Sunday morning.

Okay so with some sleep Saturday arrived and we all bundled up and headed to the Lotus Center across the street from our apartment. There was American pop music blaring from one of the office buildings and as we were getting ready to cross the very busy street where traffic laws don’t apply, “Staying Alive” came on. I started laughing and told Mike it was the perfect song to be playing as we took our lives in our hands! As our guide told us on the adoption trip, “If you need to cross the street, get behind a Chinese person. If they move, you move. If they stop, you stop. This will save your life.”

The Lotus Center is a very big multi-level mall and grocery store. There is a Watsons Drug store on the bottom floor that reminded me of CVS. There were also multiple restaurants on the bottom floor and a bunch of shops and kiosks. “Learn English for 8 yuan a session!!!” and those sorts of things. We moved up the second floor and started shopping. For housewares we got another quilt and some pillows for our bed. Towels and wash cloths and a tub to give Nadia a bath in. For the kitchen we got 2 each of forks, knives and spoons, plus 3 bowls. Assorted cleaning supplies. Assorted snacks including Ritz (which are better here – light and fluffy) and of course what I have decided is our China tradition – Snickers. They had all kinds of yogurt including what looked like Dannon in Chinese. They have some wild flavors, but I just got Nadia the old strawberry standby. I think she might like to try Kiwi and a couple others, so I will pick them up while we are here.

We ran all that up to the apartment and then came back out in search of food. We ended up at the Pizza Company which is a sit down restaurant. We learned last time that the Chinese are serious about their pizza and it’s a big deal. We got some garlic bread and a couple of pizzas and headed back to the apartment because they were coming to set up our Internet access. The Internet guy fried our wireless router that we brought so we could use both laptops. We were trying to tell them we had a transformer and adapter and he just plugged it into the wall and it started to stink and by then it was too late 🙂 The man from the school ran over to their offices and got us one of theirs, so now we are all set up and good to go.

There was a little boy who looked about 7 years old at the pizza place waiting on a to-go order with his dad who was fascinated by us and Nadia. He kept staring at us and making comments to his dad. We handed the father the little laminated cards that I made up and they read it (it has a family photo on one side and then some information about our trip on the other side in Chinese). Then the little boy tried to talk to us and his dad said, “Speak English.” The little boy wanted to know if Nadia could speak English and we said yes and that we were also going to teach her Chinese. He was a really cute kid and obviously thought that we were quite the oddity, but that Nadia was really cute.

We put Nadia down for a nap at 5pm and thought she might sleep a couple of hours, so we decided to nap too. At midnight we woke up and she was still asleep, so we woke her up, fed her and forced ourselves to stay up until 3 am even though we were all fighting the jet lag. We got back up at 6 am and are all feeling a lot more alive. So for those who wondered if our sleep experiment from home worked, I would say so. We all need to move about one more hour and we will be perfectly on China time. Go Mike with the great idea!!!! The shower set up is just fine. The water gets really hot and I am sure by the end of the month we will have our speed racer technique down to perfection.

After Nadia gets up from her morning nap we are going to head back to the store for some other odds and ends that we realized will be helpful to our stay. It’s funny how you just get used to all your “stuff” at home that you have accrued over time and when you don’t have basic items it throws you for a loop. We are going to go out exploring today and I will get lots more photos of the area that we will be living in for the next month.

It’s a little surreal that we are back in China, but so cool! School starts for us in the morning. Mike will be going from 8 am – 12 pm. The tutor will be coming to the apartment for me from 10 am – 12 pm. Then Mike will be working every night from the apartment and he has a nice little set up in our bedroom to be closed up in. I am planning on taking Nadia on walks and to the park and stuff in the afternoon so we can explore and leave the apartment quiet for Mike.

We have arrived safe and sound

And we even have our luggage! I will post in more detail later and include photos, but as we were on the way to the airport we got an email from the school saying they upgraded us to a 2 bedroom apartment because they “thought our little girl might like her own room.” WOO HOO! Then we got to the airport and United DIDN’T charge us the upgrade fee for Nadia’s child’s ticket to go Economy Plus. WOO HOO! So I was feeling good at 5 am and ready to catch our first flight. Both flights were uneventful and I was very pleased with the service we got on United and so, so, so happy that we went through Chicago and cut out the travel time that we went through using China Southern through Los Angeles (like we did for the adoption trip). 3 people from the school came to meet us at the airport including the VP which was nice. They got us up to the apartment and Nancy took me down to a little store right by the entrance for bottle water and “Coca Cola Light”. Then she pointed out to us the major grocery store/mall that is just across the street. She showed us where we were on a map and then asked us if we needed anything else right then.

Now by the time we rode through Beijing traffic to the apartment we had been traveling for about 26 hours and were zombies. Nadia had only slept about 5 hours in the last 24 and we were just beat. The apartment is a good size and it’s fabulous to have a separate room for Nadia. But as we were trying to get her to sleep and get a little settled we kept finding things it didn’t have and that I didn’t pack like towels, toilet paper and the like. It said it came with basic kitchen utensils and here is what the kitchen had:

  • Refrigerator
  • Microwave
  • Countertop appliance with 2 burners.
  • A VERY old skillet.

That’s it. No silverware (or chopsticks if you like), plates, cups, bowls or anything else. I would have laughed, but I was so worn out I wanted to cry. But instead we decided we would hit the store in the morning. We fed Nadia and got her in bed where she promptly threw up. All over her baby, blanket, the crib sheet and Taggie. So we got her up, changed her and the sheet (thank goodness I brought 2). And finally got her back to bed and ourselves into bed.

We both really wanted a shower, but as I said, there were no towels. And there isn’t really a shower……there is a shower head handle that just sprays out all over the bathroom. No joke, all the cupboards are up high in there (taller than Mike) so they don’t get wet. Mike says we are going to be having Navy showers for a month. Hee hee. But it’s got a western toilet and I am one HAPPY camper about that. I can handle all the rest like brushing our teeth with bottled water.

This apartment is very nice and GIANT by Beijing standards. I would say it’s the size our old apartment minus the extra bathroom and walk in closet for those of you who remember that place. There are tons of things very close to us and the school is in walking distance. Our apartment is on the 14th floor and everyone has been really friendly so far. We have gotten quite a few double takes, but that’s to be expected. A man on the plane with us told us afterwards that Nadia was such a good baby they didn’t even realize she was there. He said that he is used to parents going home with Chinese babies, not coming back. The man in front of us on the flight also said she was so good and quiet and thought it was really neat that we were bringing her back to China already.

Now I am off to finish unpacking to help us get settled in for our month long adventure. I will tell you more about today in the next post and include some photos.

Please pray for the babies

China is being hit with some of the worst winter weather in their history (not that you would know it from the stupid news in America – I DON’T CARE ABOUT BRITTNEY SPEARS or if Obama and Hiliary shook hands or not) anyway…many orphanages are without power and running out of water, coal, diapers and more. Many Social Welfare Institutes in China have elderly and babies in one building and all are suffering. Reports are coming in from organizations like Half the Sky about the needs, but I also ask you to pray.

Nadia lived in a very remote part of Southern China for the first 9 months of her life. They were often without power in the summertime and the babies like Nadia developed large boils from the heat. Nadia had the starts of several new boils the day we got her, but we were able to keep her cool once she was in our family. I have not heard any direct information about her orphanage because they are so remote, but I have heard about babies in other areas with chilblains on their hands. In some orphanages they are just putting all the children and nannies in one room to try and keep them warm because they have no power or coal to burn.

I am grateful to God that we have Nadia and she is not suffering this winter, but there are so many babies around the world without mothers and fathers to hug them tight and keep them warm. For detailed information you can visit http://www.halfthesky.org/ and they do have a link to make a donation if you would like.

Our Laptop died

So I am sitting here renting internet access in the hotel business center. I know a lot of you will be waking up and looking for photos and information. They don’t have any card readers on this computer so I am going to try and borrow another families laptop tomorrow afternoon to at least get a few adorable photos up. For those of you from the Nov RQ group, this is our OTHER laptop, not the one that died 2 weeks before the trip. Not feeling good about HP right now!
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So day two with the sweet girl has just ended. I left her asleep in Daddy’s arms. She was our Dr. Pepper baby last night, up at 10, 2 and 4. She is definately teething and I saw a cute little tooth poking out this morning. She had about 4 naps today since she didn’t get her 10 hours last night. Hee hee. This morning I wasn’t feeling well and so Daddy and Nadia headed for the MEGA Wal-mart with all the other families for baby supplies while I camped out in the room with some medicine. (note to Jen – he didn’t take the camera, but said it wasn’t a big deal and didn’t see the fresh fish stuff at all)

Mike had to buy a few new outfits for Nadia because she is just swimming in the 6-9 month clothes from most brands. Multiple outfits are just unwearable because they are so big. It’s pretty cute though even when they are too big. He also picked up diapers, wipes, more formula and rice cereal. I was feeling much better when they returned and we just ordered room service for lunch. The room service here at the Jin Feng is awesome and CHEAP CHEAP CHEAP. They add a 30% service charge and you still don”t hit over about $12 US for a full meal.

There was a fire drill at the hotel today and so we headed out around 3 to hit the store for sodas and bottled water. Next door to the grocery was Tiffanies and I only noticed it because of the big DIET COKE sign. We got Nadia’s finding ad from her (her employees delivered it tonight) for free and we ended up ordering 2 dress and shoe sets from her. One for now and one for later in 2 different colors. We also got a wall hanging that is going to be embrodiered with her name, birthday, orphange and province. I told her that many adoptive parents mentioned her and coming to her store. She tried to sell us all sorts of stuff, and I am sure I could get the dresses cheaper in GZ, but I really wanted Nadia to have a couple things made in her province. They measured Nadia’s feet for the shoes and everything should be ready at 4 pm tomorrow. I am sure we will get her more in GZ. I got a kick out of Tiffani because she has a great entreprenurial spirit right in the middle of China. She speaks great English and was very entertaining. She also will do babies laundry for free as an added service.

After our little shopping adventure we went back to the room because Nadia was hungry. She was pretty fussy in the afternoon and was trying to chew everything to pieces from our fingers to her toys and we gave her some more baby advil for the pain.

Tonight we had Pizza Hut for dinner. Yes, I know we are in China, but I really needed some food that smelled and tasted familiar. It was our most expensive meal yet at $15 US.

The best thing about Nadia today was that she didn’t wake up looking confused. She doesn’t try to “go” to either of us, but she just HATES to be put down. I think that she is already getting a taste of the life of 2 people completely focused on her and she doens’t want it to end. I think that she is really bonding to Mike and he has the magic touch for calming her down and getting her to sleep. (funny, it works on me too!)

She has the cutest smile and is just a sweet, calm baby. We are in love and enjoying your comments. Love, Louanne