Wednesday – The Swearing-in Day

China 2011 (Day 14)
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We woke up on Wednesday after a good night’s sleep and not so much screaming from Amelie at bedtime. Mike has a master technique with her and it’s a relief to me that he can put her to bed so well. We went down for breakfast and had to head straight up to our room to wait from 9 – 10 am in case our guide Grace called from the Consulate. Grace called a little after 10 to tell us that everything was fine and to be in the lobby at 2:10 pm to head to the consulate so Amelie could be sworn in. I got the girls a bath right after that and we got Amelie down for a nap. The rest of us had a nap too and then got up to get ready.

We got to the Consulate in about 40 minutes, went through security (they take your camera and cell phones because no photos are allowed inside). We waited around for a while and then the head of the adoption unit came out to explain to us what the process would be. She told us that there were 3000 adoptions from China in 2009 and 3400 in 2010 (60% special needs children). So far in 2011 she said that 73% of the children were special needs. I read in a Chinese newspaper a couple days ago that so far 60,000 children have been adopted out to the US and 90% were girls. Then she had all the parents stand up and take the oath for the children. Everyone clapped and cheered when we were done. Then she said we would wait for our name to be called so we could sign the last document for our adoption (insert more clapping and cheering).

Once our turn came up Mike was about to sign when I noticed that we had the Hameloth family’s signature page and I said, “Stop, that’s not us!” The woman looked very confused, but then she went to see what happened. Somehow they ended up with 2 copies of the last page and our last page was missing. They called us back and we signed the form and we were officially done. All of our group headed back downstairs and here we are with our soon-to-be new US citizen.

China 2011 - Day 14

Here is part of the group on the bus after the swearing in.

China 2011 - Day 14

After returning to the hotel our guide Grace took Lynnea and us to the photo shop to get our film from the orphanage developed. Once that was dropped off we decided that we would eat dinner at the Guangzhou restaurant which has been around since 1935. It has a pond on the floor inside which is pretty cool. Once they got a table put together for us they came over to ask us what kind of tea we wanted. We all said no tea. Then they got really stressed out and they showed me a translated booklet that basically said ‘everyone gets tea in our restaurant’ and the woman who couldn’t speak much English was saying it was custom to get tea. So we all had tea because what else could you do but leave? Then we placed our dinner order. It was really fantastic and I was once again wishing that my stomach was bigger. We had dumplings, shrimp fried rice, Guangzhou style fried noodles, some fish dish, a beef dish with veggies and shrimp balls with Mushrooms.

China 2011 - Day 14

After dinner Amelie decided that a meltdown was in order and we took off to the hotel. We got Amelie to sleep in no time flat because she was so worn out. It was a good day.

Tuesday – Shop A Rama

China 2011 (Day 13)
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Tuesday morning we got up and had breakfast. Then we met the Hameloth Family in the lobby to connect with Ann who was going to be our shopping guide. I let her take a look at my list and she got us 2 cabs and she was off like a bullet. At some point she told us that we walked too slow which cracked us all up because we thought she was crazy fast.

China 2011 - Day 13

The first stop was the wholesale market for hair clippies and pony’s. Mike believes that I purchased enough for everyone I know. HA HA! But the prices are irresistible and some are definitely gifts. Then we went up a couple flights to a shop with silk outfits. We ended up getting some beautiful outfits for the girls for now and some in bigger sizes for the next 2 years. This time we only got ones that were pants and tops, no dresses since Nadia doesn’t like those much and they look way cute in the pant sets.

China 2011 - Day 13

China 2011 - Day 13

The Hameloth’s found these cute little practice chopsticks so we grabbed some for Nadia and she really got a kick out of that. They also scored on a backpack and wallet. Then we hopped on the subway to head over to the shoe market. As you know I loved how many awesome pairs of shoes we got for Nadia at such good prices on our last 2 trips. We went to 2 different places and found some great shoes. Nadia is currently the most excited about her light up “How to Train Your Dragon” shoes that have the dragon named Toothless on them. Or as she likes to call him – Herbert. Just like last time I got several sizes up for both girls. 11 pairs total for $50 and most are leather. I got Nadia these totally adorable black boots with wild sequins on them since she loves her boots. Those who know me well know that I love the thrill of the hunt for a good bargain and I love to shop in China.

11 silk outfits for the girls, 1 silk shirt for me, 6 sets of practice chopsticks, 11 pairs of shoes for the girls and boatloads of hair stuff. Total spent? $141 plus Ann’s fee and transportation.

China 2011 - Day 13

After that Amelie was just about to hit meltdown mode so Ann put us back in a cab to the hotel. And she accidentally told both cab drivers to take us to the White Swan, but we were staying at the holiday inn. By the time we realized our cab fare had doubled and the drivers were totally frustrated. We headed over to the island to grab our clean laundry and then just stopped and ate sandwiches at Subway. It was the easiest thing to do, no translation necessary. We got Amelie down for a nap and she had a major fit about going to sleep that would have worn me out, but Mike took care of everything. Once she woke up it was just playtime and laughing and seeing her relax a little more. We headed out for a late dinner at Pizza Hut. Now I know what you might be thinking, Pizza Hut? In China Pizza Hut is a nice restaurant. This one had a huge menu with everything from calamari to fancy deserts. We got a pizza for us to split, mashed potatoes and a chicken spaghetti dish for the girls. It was all great and we were once again amazed by the amount of food that Amelie can eat. And she totally flips out if you cut her off or if the food is all gone. She just eats and eats and eats. Many meals on this trip I think that she has eaten more than me and she just screams if you don’t keep shoveling it in. We grabbed some ice cream on the way back to the room and got the girls back to the room for bed.

While we were out Mike took a lot of street shots of the pedestrian shopping area that is so fun and lively near the hotel. This really was a whole lot more our style than being on the island. I know that adoptive parents like to stay over there and it certainly can make you feel safer, but I like being in the mix of the people, not just the sanitized portions. Every time we have been out on that street though Mike has caused a crazy sensation with Nadia on his shoulders. People stop, gawk, point, stare, say things in Chinese and tons of people just give us a BIG smile or thumbs up. There are quite a few people who look totally confused and one woman said, “Chinese children?” like she couldn’t process what the deal was with us.

China 2011 - Day 13

China 2011 - Day 13

China 2011 - Day 13

2 photos for Jen.

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Amelie continued to show us her sweet personality and we can see a playful side of her now that we had not seen before. She babbles a lot more now and when Nadia starts singing she will sing too which is really cute. She is trying to imitate the things that Nadia does and likes to run around the hotel room yelling “JIE JIE!!” at the top of her lungs.

Friday afternoon health update

Hello everyone. I was just too tired and feeling too bad to post last night. Today is much better, but we are not 100%. All I have to do is be doped up enough to survive the travel and then I will go to our doctor at home. We suspect that it’s actually connective tissue around my ribs that is messed up. This is just so much more severe than a muscle strain and not a cracked rib or anything.

Mike still can’t hear out of one ear which is driving him crazy, but he can deal with that. He is hardly coughing now. Nadia just has a cold, no other tummy trouble. Amelie is still having her little cough, but it doesn’t seem to affect her much. I also think she has a couple of teeth coming in which could be adding to all her various issues.

Thanks for all your prayers. I am trying to catch up on blog posts now before we start packing tonight.

Headed to the ex-pat clinic

Nadia got sick overnight – it was bound to happen since she is surrounded by sick people. Mike and I made appointment at the big clinic inside the Garden Hotel and will be headed there shortly. If nothing else I am hoping to get some strong pain killers to get me through the trip home. Mike is going to have them check out his ear.

We appreciate all your prayers.

On a lighter note, this morning Amelie came up to me and pounded on my leg, said “Mama” and then lifted her arms to be picked up.  Sweet.